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Save yourself from wasted time, effort, money, headaches, disappointment, and a broken heart. Get help fast with online coaching by teaming up with your very own highly-qualified relationship expert.
Once you claim this offer you'll get matched with your very own relationship coach who will help you surpass any issues you face in your personal life. They will guide you, support you, and keep you accountable, so you get more of what you want out of life - and less of what you don't.
With online dating apps, and single people being a few clicks away, you would think that finding a commitment ready partner would be easy...

But despite all that technology, in-depth dating profiles, algorithms, and ease of communication, times have never been tougher to find clarity & fulfilment.

Not only do we have this technology that is supposed to help, we have countless "guru’s", self-proclaimed experts, YouTube videos, Magazine articles, and blog posts all creating confusion with never-ending conflicting information.

Can you relate to any of these questions?
How to signal that you like someone without coming across needy and weird?
Who should pay for the first date? How do I deal with it? Is it chivalry or is he showing off? What if he thinks I am a bum for not offering to pay? This is so awkward… I’m just going to cancel this date.
Should we have sex… or should I wait. I really don’t want to come off as “one of those girls” but I also don’t want him to get bored…
Does this girl even like me? I don’t want to come off as creepy…
He keeps saying that he wants to hang out… but never does anything. Am I wasting my time?
Do I break up with him… or do I stay around? He said he was going to change but he hasn’t yet. He keeps making promises and excuses. My friends say to leave, but I don’t think it’s the right thing yet. I’m so lost!
How do I feel more connected to my partner. I feel alone in our marriage
How do I start a difficult conversation or share something super vulnerable without scaring my partner
How to talk about money, sex, marriage, children, relatives, death, existential fears… 
But also, how to deal with his crazy cat/mother/friend that drives you crazy?
This constant swirl of questions with conflicting answers only does one thing: It confuses the hell out of us!

It tells us that we are always doing something wrong and we are somehow broken and faulty. 

This sad reality of the state of information overload, causes us to be crippled from taking any action, it makes us throw our hands up in the air, and lose hope in finding true love.
Here are some examples of how a relationship coach can help:
"Talking with Kristen brings light into your life! Her pertinent questions spark new ways of thinking and feeling. She remains by your side throughout the process of change as you take concrete and clearly defined turtle steps towards your goal.

I always say that “Good therapy is good teamwork”. Kristen is an excellent example of that.

I am so grateful for the help she has given me in my own quest to better understand myself and navigate my life!"
- Johanna
RS Coach Kristen Mira

“Leah is gentle when she pushes in uncomfortable places. She is good at catching those moments I'd rather breeze by and she pushes back on my narrative, but does it without hurting my feelings.

I recognize how hard a balance that can be to strike and she does it very successfully. She notices when I am defended and when I am ashamed and helps me soften and helps me stay a second longer than I want to. Her ability to do this helps me actually do the work.”
- Anonymous
RS Coach Leah Gartner

"What is so inspiring about Shannon’s work is that you feel like she is right there with you in your experience.

Hard to explain but rather than feeling like you are looking at her as outside of you you feel her right beside you ... her capacity for empathy is so organic and profound you don’t even notice it. Clients feel so heard and met and seen by Shannon.

She has such a beautiful gift in being so relatable and authentically present.”
- Beth 
RS Coach Shannon Birzon 

I have felt safe, supported and seen by Brittany from the get go. Even through a screen, I feel her warmth, and her loving support and challenge. In the atmosphere she creates, I feel able to be vulnerably honest and own my stuff, knowing that it is heard without judgement.

Brittany intently focuses on me and distills down my babbling to precise reflections, that enable me understand and see myself. Thank you for the caring, compassionate, challenging feet holding to the fire!
- Anonymous
RS Coach Brittany Barcellos

What all of these people discovered was the power of having access to personalized support that was relevant and important to THEM!

Now ask youself, what is better:
  • Asking a professional a question that is answered quickly, tailored to you and your specific situation, and provides supporting information and training so you understand everything needed to make the right decision…. In less than 5 minutes.
  • Ask 15 different people, and receive conflicting (and judgmental) responses. Spend long sleepless nights agonizing over it. Eventually give up, feel hopeless, and defeated or have to ‘settle for it’ (even when you know it won’t end well).
I think we would all agree that option ONE is the best option.
Do you agree?
Let’s pause for a moment and really think about how this level of support can drastically change your life:
1) You will cultivate the confidence, empowerment, and certainty in your ability to make the right decisions - for life. 

Is there any better feeling knowing that you are on the right path? And if things go south, you always have someone to guide you and show you your blind spots.

Should you end a relationship... Or can you save it?
Should you pursue that person.. Or let it slide?
Are you desperate and needy… or are you confident?
Are you as broken and flawed they say… or are you in a relationship with a narcissist?
Is this decision right for you… or are your judgments being clouded?

Correctly answering life-changing questions like these for the many aspects of your life has a profound effect on where you end up in 5 years. Bad decisions hurt us for a very long time. Sure, you can learn from them, but wouldn’t it be easier not to make the mistake in the first place?

2) You get what you want, sooner.

Instead of dreaming about some magical day where everything is perfect, you actually make that day happen sooner. 

3) You avoid more of what you don’t want, and prevent potential catastrophes.

Would you rather a horrible breakup that ruins another 7 months of your life, or avoid the relationship from the get go and fall in love with someone better?

They say Hindsight is 20:20. But what if you used someone else's hindsight, and avoided the catastrophe altogether?
“How do we get empowered in our lives? We get support from empowered people. People who have ‘been there’ and gone through similar struggles as us. A relationship coach can be just that. A good relationship guide is someone who studies relationships for a living. It’s what they do. It doesn’t mean they are perfect or don’t have any relationship challenges themselves. It means that they are in the conversation to overcome their own challenges and in doing so, give back and help others do the same.”

- Jayson Gaddis, Founder of The Relationship School.
But most importantly, you will prove to yourself that you can do this, you are capable, and you are a valuable and loved person on this planet.

This is your life, your future and you can take your power back!

It’s not information for information’s sake, instead it is a streamlined action plan that will transform your relationships and every single day of your life.

Let's face it - there are plenty of ‘experts’ out there who want your money, but have no practical action plan to get you where you need to go.

Our coaches will help you break through uncertainty and fear to start getting more of what you want out of our time on this planet, even if you have no confidence!

So if you are ready to gain access to your very own Relationship Coach, click the button below.

Why should you trust this?

Our coaches are some of (if not the) most highly trained coaches on the planet today. I do not say that lightly. 

Before they even have the chance to learn the best practices available right now, they are personally vetted and go through an in-depth selection process that weeds out the naturals from the non-naturals. We only work with highly-gifted natural born helpers, and it is only then that they go through a gruelling technical training process. Once they hit our high standards, they then move onto hours upon hours of practical, in-field work.

It is only then that we will allow our coaches to wear our training certification badge with honour, and allow them opportunities to help people.

We are THE SCHOOL specifically for Relationship Coaches. Not health coaches, career coaches, or even the vague ‘Life Coaches”. We help people solve their dating and relationship problems, and we do it very well.
"Kristen's has an empathic way in holding space for us when we talked about painful patterns/beliefs.

This made me feel connected and empowered in the dating process."
- Bojana S.
RS Coach Kristen Mira

"Jill helped me finally let go of an old relationship that I was healing from. She helped me see the dynamic clearly that I really did want more than I had been getting. I feel so much stronger and more self aware of my needs and wants. Thank you Jill for helping me through a hard part of my journey."
- Holly
RS Coach Jill Fleming

"After my divorce, I became avoidant without even realizing it. I used to be amazing at picking "bad boys" and dating toxic men, avoiding conflicts, and running away from love, support, and commitments. After working with Ana, I now have healthy boundaries and treat myself and others with gentle words and open heart most of the time."
RS Coach Ana Ruiz 

"Working with Brittany helped me to get clear on what was underneath an area in my life where I lacked self-confidence. I appreciate her ability to meet me where I'm at and to gently guide and challenge me towards my best self. She is able to see and call me out in places where few others in my life have been able to and this has instigated a lot of food for thought and change."
RS Coach Brittany Barcellos

Wouldn’t a therapist be better than a coach?

Therapy listens to you talk about your problems. Coaches get results. Both are helpful, yet at the end of the day, most of us desire to get what we want in a relationship without abandoning ourselves. What if you could hire someone that not only listened deeply to you, but they also helped you improve your relationship skills and overcome relationship patterns? And, what if this person helped you get what you want without compromising your integrity at the same time? 

A good relationship coach is someone who studies relationships for a living. It’s what they do. It doesn’t mean they are perfect or don’t have any relationship challenges themselves. It means that they are in the conversation to overcome their own challenges and in doing so, give back and help others do the same.

The smartest people on the planet hire mentors and coaches to help them uplevel. There’s no shame in asking for help in your relational life. In fact, by asking for help, you further guarantee your success. When you don’t ask for help, you might stay stuck right where you are. There are trained professionals who know how to navigate relationship challenges, so you don’t have to figure it all out on your own.

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So, what is it going to be?

The pandemic has reached a boiling point where most people are stressed, overwhelmed, worried and feeling isolated and alone. This puts tremendous stress on us as individuals, and it can add even more layers of stress in any high-stakes relationship. But there is a way through this. It’s to hire a guide, a coach, a mentor to guide you through whatever relationship challenge you’re facing be it boundaries, break ups, or speaking your truth with someone difficult.

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Get Certified as a Relationship Coach

After you complete all required training and practice, you’ll become a level 1 certified Relationship Coach and be well on your way to making a difference in this world. Now that’s something to be proud of!

How Do Our Coaches Do After They Graduate?
Do They See Real Clients & Make Money?

We recently reached out to our TRS Relationship coaches to get an idea of the impact they’re having out in the world.

  • We got responses from 11 RCT grads, 3 of which are currently coaching full-time, 7 coaching part-time, and 1 not coaching at all.
  • The coaches are seeing an average of 1-15 clients a week at an average of $150-200/hour, bringing in anywhere from $150-800/week or $300-600/month, to upwards of $75,000 a year.
  • ​Most of the coaches have served about 10-20 clients so far, with 2 or our coaches at over 100 and 200+ clients reached so far.
  • ​Overall, the coaches expressed that they experience all of the relationships in their life (from coworkers to friends to relatives to strangers) all being positively impacted as a result of their TRS education, and a few coaches are offering community events and group support.
  • ​There’s a unanimous desire from all of our coaches to expand their business and reach more people and we hope to help facilitate this potential in the near future.

The Interpersonal Intelligence™ skills you will learn are not just taught in an academic way, with scientific support. DPIR Self Study students get to learn and practice these skills every week over the 9-month course with optional practice partners so these skills become part of their natural behavior

 As a student of DPIR Self Study, you’ll be enrolled in:

  • 18 lectures taught by me on the core curriculum
  • Optional weekly practice sessions with new and different practice partners (according to our students, this is one of the most beneficial parts of the course because practice translates into results in real life)
  • ​An optional Facebook group of committed students who are on your team, rooting for your success
  • ​Regular homework (which will take about 1-2 hours each week)
  • ​Reflection papers, where you share your experience reading and applying principles from a mighty tome of relationship strategies
  • ​An self-exam, which you’ll take at the end of each semester to test your knowledge of each skill

As you can see, DPIR Self Study isn’t just a few tricks and tips, or a handful of therapy sessions…

DPIR Self Study will take you DEEPER into yourself, so you can relate to others in a skillful way, so you can enjoy more love, more connection, and more money

100% Money Back Guarantee

When you enroll in RCT, you are eligible for a refund within 30 days of your purchase.

All you need to do is send me your completed homework from the first two classes, as well as a paragraph or two on why RCT didn’t work for you, and email them to

I want you to succeed, AND, I’m committed to you, so I’m going to put my money where my mouth is.

If you sign up for RCT and you watch the first two classes and do the homework, but still feel like there won’t be a deep shift in your life, I’ll refund your tuition 100%.

Hell, if you complete the homework for the first two classes of the course and you don’t feel like you’ll save yourself YEARS of heartache and misery, suffering and sadness, I’ll refund 100% of your tuition.

Even more, if you feel like I can’t help you take your current pain and frustration in your relationships and flip it 180 degrees to be something you’re grateful for, something that gives you power (instead of gutting you of your power), then I’ll refund your tuition 100% within the first 30 days.

All I ask from you is that you commit fully to the first two classes and adopt the Love Warrior attitude. I’ll do my part, you do yours. And if I’m wrong, I’ll give you back your investment.